Am I an Asshole or Just a Guy?

Am I an Asshole or Just a Guy?

    | Mar 15, 2017
KEEN_N_SINGLE   Man 50yrs
When it comes to meeting new people ,there are some that I would only meet once, some that I would take home only and some that I would consider for a relationship.
Am I an asshole or a guy with standards?
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KEEN_N_SINGLE   Man 50yrs

Thanks But!




Quoting 'tall60'

Hard to say based on scant information...however you're definitely a guy who knows how to post a free advertisement...lets see how u go in the jungle.
Thankyou for your interest, I am flattered. Though I am not into guys.

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Hank_E_Panky   Man 63yrs

Aaaw c'mon bloke bring out your feminine side...

Try multitasking, you could be both at once. 😕
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blackmagicblonde   Woman 57yrs

your a guy ,,

sorry hunni ,,,but your over 50 and not the best looking guy ive seen ,,,may be you should sit down ,have a good hard look in the mirror ,,and re,evaluate your self ,,,,havent you heard of the saying that beutie comes from with in ,,,,??
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jayme2   Man 53yrs

Touch...

Nothing wrong with a one time root ? If a woman picks up that that's all that's on offer the only reason I can see she would walk is if wasn't attracted or just not that way inclined. I've had one time roots that were great and never backed up again.. I'm sure you have too even though you wear your bikini up side down ... lol..
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EarthQueen   Woman 46yrs

Hey its your life

Do it your way.
Myself, for all intents and purposes I wouldn't meet with someone with the thought that its a one time thing. Unless its a hook up and the guy is from out of area and theres a massive attraction (Then all bets are off.)
If I am going to meet them there must be enough attraction and connection for me to think I would meet them again. It doesn't always work out that way but that is the goal. I couldn't meet someone just for 1 time sex without the zing. Sounds boring.
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

Jay

No, I never go into any encounter wanting 'one time only' and that will never change. Quite a few end up one time only, of course, either they or me, don't want a repeat performance, but never go in with that intention, and if I knew a guy was thinking that way, I wouldn't meet him at all. It's a waste of my time. I'm looking for repeat/ongoing, always have looked for that, occasionally strike gold, then keep on panning lol but if I'm attracted enough to want that kind of intimacy, why would I only want it once? I'm a greedy girl remember? 😉
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

EarthQueen

Not boring at all. So much time goes into filtering and getting to trust people before we meet them. I'm not a big fan anymore of hooking up with interstate visitors for that reason. Few special exceptions to that though, some are just too hard to say no to 😉
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

op

So just to clarify, you're not perfect but you have contempt for those with a lack of integrity and manners, as opposed to your non perfect self who's bright shining character traits rank pretty high in your mind ? And also just needed to clarify, you say there are some women you'd only want to meet once? Lucky them, might want to take your head out of the sand sometime soon 😉
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countrytouch  

Man 34yrs

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Quoting 'PepperRose'

eg., for illustrative purposes only
If you'd fuck someone from this site, but woudn't have a relationship with them - ass
If you'd fuck someone giving them impression you're after something more, just to get some action - ass
If you meet and decide this is the wrong match for you, and you're honest and genuine in your dealings - non-ass
etc.,

I understand the second and the third one.

But on the first option, really? By "relationship" are you calling long term commitment compatibility, or just the ongoing communication for a fb/fwb etc? By "fuck" do you mean ONS only, or little or no other communication or actual care? Sometimes the person you are with is partnered (aka a couple), or wants kids when you don't, or is a smoker when you aren't, or many other things that prevent a relationship compatibility. Just seems strange considering everything this site advocates.
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

not to worry

I'm gonna start a topic tomorrow asking if I'm an asshole 😀 there'll be people jumping on their keypads all over Australia. From there I'll tally the votes, and it's tipped the asshole party will win 😉
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PepperRose   Woman 41yrs

*squints*

Sorry CT, I'm not really following what you're asking me / making a statement about. So I'll blabber on, and may or may not be addressing your point.

What I was saying in that sentence was alluding to what I have found, that people can view people differently depending on where they meet them, and can make judgements on whether they're 'relationship' (whatever that means) material or not, purely based on that.

So Person A can be found a sci-fi convention / music festival / political rally / sex party / sex-positive online forum / vanilla dating site, etc., and be can viewed by Person B completely differently depending on where they met them, and dismissed as worth nothing more than a quick dip, if met at a sex party, or this site, for eg. Person C doesn't give a fuck, because they're enlightened and non-judgemental, and actually likes that Person A has varying hobbies and has a sex-positive view on life.
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jayme2   Man 53yrs

Touch...

I never plan a one time only. It just happens that way.. How do you know if you want seconds , thirds etc if you don't have a first ? 🤔 😜
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KEEN_N_SINGLE   Man 50yrs

Interesting

I always thought it was the way we responded to a situation that mattered in life and not the situation it self.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

Betty and annie

You naughty girls, you liked my comment 😠

So what are you saying? 😂😂😂
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

Jay

lol exactly. Lots of crash test dummies during test driving 😉 oops I should speak for myself there, think I'm the crash test dummy most of the time. Take the 'ol cougar out for a spin 🏁

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