Am I an Asshole or Just a Guy?

Am I an Asshole or Just a Guy?

    | Mar 15, 2017
KEEN_N_SINGLE
When it comes to meeting new people ,there are some that I would only meet once, some that I would take home only and some that I would consider for a relationship.
Am I an asshole or a guy with standards?
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purplehaze4u  

Woman 51yrs

No

I think we are all the same. Some guys I would only meet once, some just for a coffee and a rare couple of guys I see over and over again. Doesnt make you or me an asshole because we are all attracted to different types. But it does make a difference with how you tell them and how you treat them. Always be respectful even if they aren't. Thats how I do it anyway. Good luck😊

- Posted from rhpmobile
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tall60   Man 66yrs

Hard to say

Hard to say based on scant information...however you're definitely a guy who knows how to post a free advertisement...lets see how u go in the jungle.
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Stillyoung27  

Woman 48yrs

Neither

Ha ha ....I have to agree !...I think its our age .... been there done that ...we know what we want !!😁

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Koolgrey   Man 43yrs

. . . .

Not standards, necessarily. Just preferences, I think.
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bigbustyBBW   Woman 47yrs

a guy with standards...




I say a guy with standards...and everyone should have them...and as long as you are honest and upfront with your expectations, then u stay the standards guy not the arsehole
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SuperFoxxxy   Woman 45yrs

No

It's because you like what you like.

It's called having self respect.

You don't have to do anything you don't want to do. Unless of course your behaviour towards the ones you take home for just a root, you're a complete arsshole about it. Guarantee if that happens, they'll never return. ;)

Ms Foxy
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juicypants15   Woman 44yrs

No

I'm the same does that make me a bitch???
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

okay

I'll kick this off lol I tend to jump in with new topics, and was holding off, for fear of putting others off commenting. But, I think you're perfectly normal. Don't ever drop your standards. The only way I'm different, is that I never meet anyone with the intention of only seeing them once. Not to say there's anything wrong with that, but for me, I always meet with the hope of seeing them again. If someone didn't float my boat enough to see them more than once, I wouldn't meet them at all. But that's just me and obviously we never know until we meet, how it will pan out 😃
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I_touch_myself2   Woman 53yrs

yes

I agree with foxy, if your intention is for a one time root, most women will pick up on that and it's not usually well received 😃
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Luck_Dragon   Woman 38yrs

Your topic describes most people

Has somebody called you an asshole for something you have done, or not done, and that has prompted the topic? If so telling us a bit more about the situation could help give you more constructive answers.
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Champagnesunsets

Yu are...

Keeping your options open. Nothing wrong with that. I think profiles should state...one off meetings only. Then no one will be disappointed.
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Rick_Blaine  

Man 45yrs

There's not really enough information...

Arseholeism isn't usually earned by what you do so much as how and why
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Kay1987  

Woman 29yrs

I Don't

Think it's related to just males. I definitely for one feel the same but I don't feel bad, it's part of life and the joys of internet dating. I am honest and upfront with those I do meet to say hi and never commit to more then hello. As someone prior mentioned as long as your respectul. I'm not an arsehole haha so it's pretty safe to say in my opinion anyway that you aren't either.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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PepperRose   Woman 41yrs

@KEEN_N_SINGLE

This is too simplistic. I think the question of '[if you're an asshole or not', comes down to how you're handling these people.

eg., for illustrative purposes only
If you'd fuck someone from this site, but woudn't have a relationship with them - ass
If you'd fuck someone giving them impression you're after something more, just to get some action - ass
If you meet and decide this is the wrong match for you, and you're honest and genuine in your dealings - non-ass
etc.,

So, dunno, maybe you're both normal and an ass, I just don't know your proportions. I'm sure we can all be an ass now and then.

Curious, what lead to you asking this question?
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KEEN_N_SINGLE

Manners, Even If they Don't

I do my upmost to be respectful and be polite to people in every aspect of my life even if I don't like or agree with them.

This topic is just a general question. I am not perfect but maybe my contempt for other peoples lack of integrity
and manners is bubbling away just under the surface!


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KEEN_N_SINGLE

Idea!




Quoting 'juicypants15'

I'm the same does that make me a bitch???
Maybe we should meet! lol

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Arsehole or guy.

What's the difference? Single Caucasian men are the dog everyone likes to kick.
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Drewcifer   Man 37yrs

Sorry




lol definite asshole


&


Juicypants15 fantastic name

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jedi_knight  

Man 38yrs

Haha

Well on your way to a relationship you have to meet at least once and probably take the luck person home a few times ... and somewhere inbetween convince the lovely individual you are not a 💩 😂🤣 ... life's a journey

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brisjay88   Man 28yrs

No filter

too keen, average looking and most likely not getting any attention from his desired audience . Everyone needs a self importance boost occasionally and post gives him a chance to show he rates himself highly (I'm sure he's a self proclaimed asshole based on that)

Probably a really great guy though so good luck


- Posted from rhpmobile

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